How much do you know yourself? Like really know yourself? If right now I ask you to tell me something about yourself would you be able to?

OK lets get little personal, if I ask in any situation will you be brave /courageous or be scared, will you be a person to take charge or stand back and support the person who is taking charge, will you crave to be independent or crave support of someone….

Now lets get really personal, if i ask what is really your flaw or what are you really scared of or the best thing about you (and caring for others or anything related to others does not count) or I ask you what really makes you -YOU (again people in your life does not count)….

Did these questions make you think even for a sec.
Now I want you to think of a close friend or a family member and answer these questions for them. You can do it so much more quickly than answering these questions for yourself.
Now think why can’t you do the same for yourself.

When I was going through self hate I was so miserable that it felt like there is no other way than up. It took time. I started by getting to actually know myself. When I started I realized ho different I am from my own-self and that was the realization that changed me.
After that started spending me time, went to movies by myself, restaurants, just out or spent time by myself at home enjoying my own company.
What worked more in getting to know myself was quiz. I googled quiz on the type of personality I have or what is my spirit animal. The end result was not much important but the questions made me think about myself to choose a option and that was very important.
But that’s just me, everyone has their own journey, their own path to self discovery. You can try out my way or be inspired by this and make your own.