Hey guys!

How was your new years?
New years just started, so far its interesting. I am excited to see what the rest of the year brings, are you?
Before we think/plan ahead the entire year, let’s start this year with less toxic…..
Less toxic things.
Less toxic people.
Less toxic relationships. 
Let’s all start this year on a more peaceful, more healthy, more cheerful note.

Have you ever had people or a thing in your life that at the time was good but after they went out of your life you realize it was bad for you or a relationship you were in that just gave you more stress than happiness?
Have you ever wondered why was it so bad?
It is not necessary that that person you are with (brother/sister/friend/gf/bf/husband/ wife) is bad. They can be a good person but are they really good for you?

Many times a person an an individual is great but together the personality, the interest, the behavior, the habits, etc. clash. Sometimes its a beautiful clash and sometimes its a dangerous clash in which neither of you come out better.

Take a yourself out of the situation, take a look at all your relationship (platonic and personal) as an outsider. Think is it giving you more tears/ more anxiety/ more stress / more fights or more happiness/ more peace and calm.

Do you feel that you can finally breath and be yourself around them. Laugh freely and say what ever is on your mind. They can help you sort out your thoughts and support you in your decision. Treat you way better then you deserve and understands you. And you do all these thing back as its not a one way street.
Its not a fantasy, this actually happens only if you will let yourself get there. 

I know saying this is easier than doing it in real life, hell I know its really difficult. Try!
Yes holding on is so much easier than letting go. Yes those people are important but not just for yourself but also form them try!
Start slowly, distance yourself a bit. See the instant difference. Get yourself closer yo people who actually care for you. See the easy smiles/laugh the instant relief.

See that its better to part ways then cling together because its a known territory. See the distance is not just good for you but for that person too. Don’t just let the familiarity and comfort of known and what to expect hold you back. Do it for yourself, take that risk.